Are you ready to take your relationship to the next level and enhance your intimacy? Fun sexy games for couples are a fun way to spice things up, build heat, and create special memories together. Whether you want something silly, naughty, or a romantic challenge, there are fun sexy games designed for couples that will bring you both closer together.
There are classic, naughty sex games like strip poker and sex dice, and there are fun, erotic ideas like art challenges, sexy scavenger hunts, and other playful games that inspire you and your partner to do something fun and different together. Playful activities like sexual games can allow you to explore fantasies, communicate better with each other, and increase connection.
In this blog post, you will find a list of 20+ fun sexy games for couples that you can do together, with friends, or while on a couples’ retreat (at home or otherwise). Each game is selected to create naughty fun (and laughter) and maybe some trouble, too. Together, we will explore a honeymoon collection of sexy games for couples, board games for couples, romantic challenges, and other unique, fun ideas to heat up your love life.
20+ Fun Sex Games for Couples: Detailed Guide
Ready to spice things up in the bedroom? Then buckle up for this thorough and ultimate guide on fun sex games for couples—featuring classic board games with a twist, some fun do-it-yourself ideas, along with playful challenges. All of these use a blend of structure, spontaneity, and sensuality, perfect for couples looking to shake up the routine, connect, and experience new forms of pleasure together.
1. Our Sex Game (OSG)
A gender-neutral erotic game played on a board and incorporating dice and sexy game challenges—built to escalate from seductive to erotic to X-rated. Every time a new round begins, players draw cards from the action pile—romantic, passionate, or intimate. The winner gets the chance to realize their ultimate sexual fantasy during the blackout round at the end of the session. There are plenty of other surprises and excitement in this unpredictable game, making it fun even when played multiple times.
2. Sexopoly
A play on Monopoly, players go around the board buying sexy properties (strip clubs and lingerie shops) and performing naughty challenges. If you can’t find a way to pay for the sexy distractions, you need to remove an article of clothing! There is friendly competition and sexy dares in Sexopoly, perfect for couples who want a sexier twist on board game night.
3. Love Battleship
The sexy spin on the classic Battleship game gives the opportunity to call out coordinates. Once you hit, you must draw a foreplay or sex card, and then complete the challenge. It is also customizable based on comfort—if you do not want full-on sex, simply choose not to include those cards!
4. Oral Fun
In this board game, oral pleasure is the name of the game. The game starts off the usual way, rolling dice and moving around the board. Along the way, you will be completing some spicy oral actions, answering adult trivia, and perhaps a dare or two. This board game allows focus on oral sex, while playing and trying new things together.
5. The Big Oh!
This fun foreplay board game has you race around the board, using a massage candle, blindfold, tickler, and a few cards with flirty dares. You are racing to tease each other and build anticipation while tickling each other’s senses. The “big oh” is often the moment you are racing to achieve at the end of the experience.
6. Role-Playing Board Game (Fog of Love)
Players assume the role of fictitious people and go through some elements in a relationship story by making choices, navigating challenges, and discovering secrets to reveal. Each session is unique, emphasizing improvisation, communication, and exploration of fantasy.
7. Naughty Connect 4
A raunchy version of Connect 4, where each chip has a sexy action like nibble, massage, dirty talk, etc. When someone wins, their partner has to perform all the actions in the winning line. Everyone wins in the end!
8. Sexy Block Stacking (Jenga)
Play Jenga, but each block has a sexy action — strip, kiss, dance, etc. The higher the tower gets, the more the tension rises, and the raunchy dares make it even more fun!
9. Sexy Card Games (Talk, Flirt, Dare!)
A deck of cards from which you can pull has three levels: talk (ice-breakers), flirt (spicy conversation), and dare (a little more physical). These cards are great conversation starters, encourage intimacy, and move foreplay along.
10. Strip Poker
Simple poker, but instead of money, each hand is a clothing item or sexy dare. The game gets more intense as players undress, and it becomes flirty and fun.
11. Glow in the Dark Sex Dice
The dice let you know the action, body part, and location where the action will take place. You can even use extra dice for sex positions or time caps. The fun is in what will happen next!
12. Truth or Dare (The Sexy Edition)
Take turns asking each other Truth or Dare questions, which can vary from naughty to sensual to revealing! As the ideal game for revealing fantasies and trying things you wouldn’t normally try, this is a great communication tool to build trust and vulnerability.
13. Erotic Art Challenge
Find body-safe paints and take turns painting each other’s bodies. Find their erogenous zones or open up to explore new sensations. It’s all in the name of art!
14. Sexy Scavenger Hunt
This doesn’t take a lot of preparation but can be a lot of fun! Hide clues around the house to toys or intimate tasks that lead to a sexy surprise. Hunting together is part of the fun and builds anticipation!
15. Strip Twister
Play Twister, but when someone loses balance, the individual must take off a clothing item or do something sexual instead. The physical connection and laughter make this a couple’s favorite!
16. Blindfolded Poker
Play poker blindfolded, and instead of money, players bet actions (massage, oral, or other physical actions). The element of surprise with a blindfold just adds to the overall fun.
17. Find The Honey
Blindfold your partner (then place honey on a spot — not a secret spot that the other individual knows of) on your body, and their mouth is the only allowed way to find the honey. You can also switch it up and do vice versa, changing where you put honey on your bodies too!
18. Mmmms & Ahhhhs
One partner touches the other anywhere on the body, except the genitals, breasts, or butt. The other partner can only respond by saying “mmm” or “ahh,” or some variation of an “ahh” and “mmm” sound. This is a simple nonverbal or teasing game that enhances your body senses while keeping communication playful!
19. 30-Day Position Challenge
You each agree to try a new sex position every day for thirty days. You can use the position card deck to pick, instead of choosing at random, and still try new positions you haven’t tried before!
20. The Cake Game
Decorate your partner’s body with Nutella, whipped cream, and fruit (we added extra fruit for fun!), and you will take turns licking your partner and eating some off of them. Who knew dessert could be sexy?
21. Pretend Play
Choose some sort of bag that is stuffed with costume props (e.g., fire hat, nurse costume, etc.). Choose one of the props and act out a scenario. This game is great for creativity and another opportunity to take on a new role as a couple.
22. Countdown Game
Set a timer for some time (e.g., twenty minutes). Build anticipation by teasing, kissing, and touching, but no penetration until the timer goes off. This game allows for anticipation of the act and makes foreplay the main event.
23. Beach Blanket Bingo
Set down a towel with massage oil, and just roll around together. Feeling skin on skin with slippery oil makes it really fun and hot.
24. Tacky Task Box
Have a box or jar of slips of sexy things, sexy dares, or sexy tasks. Take turns picking a slip from the box and make sure to complete the assigned task. You could make the slips color-coded for things like foreplay, different positions, etc., or role-playing.
25. Naked Twister
Play Twister, but naked. All the positions with Twister will add an intensity to the game that will quickly transform into playful foreplay.
26. Dirty Scrabble
When playing Scrabble, you can only use dirty words or suggestive words in the mix. Twist it as part of foreplay, and have your partner act out what you say or get them to start something based on the words used.
27. Adult Dominoes
If you win, you will pick a stack of scenario cards to fulfill as a dominant or submissive role in the bedroom. The winner makes the determination of who plays what role. This activity is a fun way to try power play in a controlled setting.
28. Hand Over the Remote
Using an app to control sexual devices, one person will control the device and the intensity. If the other person fails to answer or take on a dare, you will increase the device’s intensity. A fun activity that combines anticipation, control, and technology together in one activity.
29. Naughty Pictionary
Using a whiteboard, draw sexual acts or sexual fantasies and have your partner guess what they are. If they guess right, the winner can have a sexy favor or a sexy reward. This game is fun, and not having to say anything allows for fun to be had.
30. Fondue Pick Up Sticks
Have fun by taking turns feeding each other a chocolate-covered delicacy after each successful pick-up—adding a fun twist to it by putting the treat on or in your body and seeing if your partner can retrieve it.
Practical Tips for Fun Sex Games
Choosing to explore sex games together can be a fun and arousing idea, but many couples wonder how to navigate this comfortably and make it enjoyable for both partners. Below are the most common questions from couples (with practical solutions) based on feedback received from real couples:
How do we begin if one partner feels shy or awkward?
Consider using a fun and low-pressure approach to games and exploring them together. Examples include sexy dice, fun games with talk/flirt/dare cards, or a variation of games that are romantic for couples. Agree together on clear boundaries and play with the idea of a fun or sexy game. Talk about what attributes you would like the other person to engage with when you play. Developing honest dialogue is key here. If you have not previously shared a fantasy you would like to explore, now might be the time. Safe words are ideal for both partners—to feel comfortable when venturing into an uncertain place. It’s an opportunity to create trust (commitment) in exploring fantasies.
How can we keep things fresh and avoid a boring routine?
Try new types of games regularly. Examples could include things like sensation play (with feathers or ice, etc.) or elements of role play (ideas are infinite), or creating fun scenarios, and even new types of foreplay games. Create anticipation leading up to your sex sessions by sharing some flirty messages throughout the day before connecting in private, or by being open to new scenarios or modifications (whether it’s props or role play).
What if we both want to play and explore more adventurous or even kinkier games together?
Start slow (as noted above); you may be surprised by your partner’s comfort level. Talk about what you want to incorporate together. Have a safe word. Check in with each other (constant feedback is helpful). For some, this could involve light BDSM elements, power play elements (as a couple), app-controlled devices (with partnered toys), or desires that both partners are curious about and want to experience.
Any tips for even more sensual experiences?
Focus on the environment/set the scene (clean sheets, dimmed light, a funky romantic playlist, candles). Emphasize foreplay—sensuality is all about the repeated anticipation (taking your sweet time), beyond the “science” of sex, and stimulating erogenous zones. Pay extra close attention to your partner while taking on a sensual challenge and exploring their reactions. Engage in a variety of erotic games to explore arousal and connect deeper than before.
Fun sex games are about two partners exploring pleasure, curiosity, and connection. I encourage both of you to get comfortable with experiencing the unknown…try to relax, and have fun! Enjoy your trip!
Advanced Play & Creative Inspiration
Are you ready for some advanced levels of fun sex games?! During the winter months, many couples are looking for fresh ways to be adventurous and connected. Here are some advanced ideas and creative inspiration:
How are we going to surprise each other and make it exciting?
Blindfold and restraint games can add anticipation and excitement. For example, one of you is restrained and blindfolded, and the other partner has free access to arouse them. The unpredictability and anticipation are very exciting and fun. You can also create a sexy treasure hunt, where you leave notes or toys hidden around the house, and your partner has to complete tasks or follow clues to find your “gift.”
What are some unique DIY or customizable games we can make?
You can create your own sexy Jenga game using numbered blocks with links to dares or “truth questions” to celebrate your partner’s sexiness. Sex dice can be taken to another level by adding additional dice with the action, location, and duration of play as random variables. Many couples express creativity and have made their own “strip-tease battleship” or “sex bingo” to play with each other for a more competitive, fun way to explore play.
How can we explore our fantasies or kink in a safe way?
Establish a “fantasy bowl” where each of you writes down fantasy ideas to discuss and act out, or consider your own scenario for role play ideas like stranger hookups or dominant/submissive settings. Consent and communication are the most crucial components of kink. You never want to be too safe while exploring your sexuality. It is important to establish boundaries and safe words.
How can we make these games more interactive or involving?
You can use your senses by incorporating food (ice cream, chocolate) to be more connected, or by adding sensation play (feathers, ice) to create different modalities for interactions. You can always make or try games like “strip questions,” “horny truth or dare,” or possibly rock-paper-scissors with alternatives to have a sexy task.
You should mix these advanced sex games and play ideas into your connection with your partner to make it passionate, surprising, and unique to you!